What to Expect from a Child's Assessment
A practical guide to the assessment process for children, covering what happens before, during, and after an assessment, and how you can prepare.
Why Your Child Might Be Referred for an Assessment
Children are referred for assessments for many different reasons. You may have noticed that your child is finding it harder than their peers to learn to read, to make friends, to manage their emotions, or to cope with everyday routines. A teacher may have raised concerns about your child’s progress or behaviour in school. Or a health professional may have suggested that an assessment could help to understand your child’s development.
Assessments can cover a wide range of areas, including speech and language skills, cognitive and learning abilities, social communication and interaction, attention and concentration, emotional wellbeing, sensory processing, and physical coordination. The type of assessment your child needs will depend on the nature of the concerns.
It is natural to feel anxious or uncertain about the assessment process. Many parents worry about what it will involve, whether their child will find it stressful, and what the outcomes might mean. Understanding what to expect can help to ease some of these concerns and prepare you to support your child through the process.
It is worth remembering that an assessment is not a test that your child can pass or fail. It is a way of building a detailed picture of their strengths and needs, so that the right support can be put in place.
Before the Assessment: How to Prepare
Before the assessment, you will usually be asked to complete questionnaires or provide information about your child’s developmental history, medical background, and current difficulties. Take your time with these forms and be as detailed as you can — the information you provide helps the assessor to understand the full picture.
If your child has been seen by other professionals in the past, it can be helpful to gather any reports or letters you have. Bring these to the assessment or send them in advance. Previous assessments, school reports, and medical records can all provide useful context.
Preparing your child for the assessment can also be helpful. What you say will depend on their age and understanding. For younger children, you might explain that they are going to spend some time with a grown-up who wants to find out more about how they learn and play. For older children, you might explain that the assessment is about understanding what they find easy and what they find harder, so that the right help can be arranged.
Try to schedule the assessment at a time when your child is likely to be at their best — well rested and not hungry. If your child has particular anxieties about meeting new people or being in unfamiliar settings, let the assessor know in advance so they can make adjustments.
During the Assessment: What Happens
What happens during the assessment will depend on the type of assessment being carried out and the age of your child. However, most assessments share some common features.
The assessor will usually begin by putting your child at ease and explaining what will happen in age-appropriate language. For younger children, much of the assessment may be carried out through play-based activities, puzzles, picture cards, and games. For older children, the assessment might involve standardised tests, questionnaires, conversations, and practical tasks.
Speech and language assessments typically involve activities that look at how well your child understands language, how they express themselves, and how they use language socially. Cognitive and educational psychology assessments may include tasks that measure reasoning, memory, processing speed, and academic skills. Occupational therapy assessments may involve activities related to fine motor skills, sensory processing, and daily living skills.
You may be asked to stay in the room during the assessment, or you may be asked to wait nearby. The assessor may also want to spend some time talking to you separately to gather your observations and answer your questions. Assessments can vary in length from one to several hours, and some may be carried out over more than one session.
It is completely normal for children to find some parts of the assessment challenging — that is often the point. The assessor is trained to manage this sensitively and to make sure the experience is as comfortable as possible for your child.
After the Assessment: Understanding the Results
After the assessment, the assessor will analyse the results and prepare a written report. The time this takes varies, but you should expect to receive the report within two to four weeks. The report will describe what was assessed, how the assessment was carried out, the findings, and recommendations for support.
Many assessors will arrange a feedback session with you to talk through the results. This is a good opportunity to ask questions, clarify anything you do not understand, and discuss what the findings mean for your child. Some families find it helpful to bring a partner, family member, or friend to the feedback session for support.
The report may include a formal diagnosis (such as dyslexia, autism, or ADHD), or it may describe your child’s strengths and needs without giving a specific label. Either way, the recommendations section is particularly important, as it sets out the practical strategies and support that can help your child.
You can share the report with your child’s school, GP, or any other professionals involved in their care. The school should use the recommendations to inform their support plan. If the report identifies significant needs, it can also be used as evidence in a request for an EHC needs assessment.
How ChildWize Makes the Assessment Process Easier
At ChildWize, we understand that the assessment process can feel daunting for both parents and children. Our specialists are experienced in working with children and are committed to making the experience as positive as possible.
All our assessments take place online through our secure video platform. Many parents tell us that their children are more relaxed and responsive when they can participate from the comfort of their own home. Our assessors use a range of engaging, interactive tools and activities that are designed for effective online delivery.
You can browse our specialists by area of expertise, read reviews from other parents, and choose someone who feels like the right fit for your child. There are no lengthy waiting lists, no referrals needed, and you can book a session at a time that works for your family.
After the assessment, you will receive a detailed written report with clear, practical recommendations. Our specialists are also available for follow-up sessions to help you implement the recommendations and to provide ongoing support for your child.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does an assessment take?
The length of an assessment depends on the type and the child’s age. A speech and language assessment might take one to two hours, while a full educational psychology assessment or autism assessment may take several hours, sometimes spread across more than one session. Your assessor will let you know what to expect.
Will my child find the assessment stressful?
Most children cope well with assessments, especially when they are well prepared and the assessor creates a warm, supportive atmosphere. Assessors are trained to work sensitively with children and to adapt their approach if a child becomes anxious or unsettled. It can help to talk to your child beforehand about what will happen.
What if the assessment does not result in a diagnosis?
Not every assessment leads to a formal diagnosis, and that is perfectly fine. The assessment will still provide valuable information about your child’s strengths and needs, along with practical recommendations for support. A diagnosis is not always necessary to access help.
Can an online assessment be as thorough as a face-to-face one?
Yes. Research supports the use of telehealth for many types of child assessment, and our specialists use validated tools and methods adapted for online delivery. Some children actually perform better in their home environment, where they feel more comfortable and at ease.
How much does a private assessment cost?
Costs vary depending on the type of assessment and the specialist involved. You can see each specialist’s fees on their ChildWize profile before booking. Some families find that investing in a timely private assessment allows them to access support sooner than the NHS pathway would allow.
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